HISTORY OF THE TOI ET MOI RING
Derived from the French words for ‘You and Me’, the Toi et Moi ring has a long and rich history deeply-rooted in celebrating love in all its forms.
WHEN DID IT ORGINATE?
Toi et Moi rings gained popularity after 1796, when French Emperor Napoleon proposed to his bride-to-be Josephine Queen of Italy with a yellow gold Toi et Moi ring, featuring a pear-cut Diamond and a pear-cut Blue Sapphire.
Contrary to the norm at the time, their relationship was based on love rather than political agenda. Josephine was a widow and 6 years older than Napoleon, which was fiercely frowned upon. This gave beautiful symbolism to Josephine’s ring - those of romance, unity and unwavering devotion, which are all still attributed to the Toi and Moi ring today.
WHAT DOES IT SYMBOLISE?
Featuring two stones nestled side by side, the Toi and Moi is often said to symbolise the coming together of two souls. There is also freedom for creativity, with the option to pair a diamond with a coloured gemstone (or even have both stones be coloured gemstones!) - the diamond representing strength and an everlasting bond while the coloured gemstone embodying uniqueness and individuality.
FAMOUS TOI ET MOI RINGS THROUGH THE AGES
A famous Toi et Moi Ring was Jackie Kennedy’s engagement ring. Created by Van Cleef & Arpels for her engagement in 1953, her ring featured a 2.8ct Diamond and Emerald, which she later swapped out for a Marquise cut as her tastes evolved.
The Toi and Moi ring has not dulled in popularity amongst modern brides. Famously, Emma Ratajkowski got engaged with a large Pear and Cushion cut Diamond Toi et Moi, while Ariana Grande incorporated a Diamond and heirloom pearl to her ring as a nod to her grandfather.
Toi et Moi rings albeit visually non-traditional, is a stunning option for the modern bride. Our Mini Toi and Moi Rings are our RUUSK take on this iconic design, incorporating oval, emerald and pear stone shapes to create two stunning rings. We were inspired by love in all forms whether between lovers, family or friends, and adore the idea of Toi et Moi rings as fun matching friendship rings or a special heirloom for mum and daughter - the options are endless and there are no rules when it comes to celebrating love.